All relationships get a bit stale every now and then, here are some ideas to shake it up and keep it smoking:
1. Be Unpredictable – Break a few rules and do
something out of character. If you go to bed in the same old t-shirt
every night, invest in some sexy lingerie. Initiate love making
yourself, and make some moves you haven’t tried before. There is plenty
of advice these days to give you ideas on how you can keep his toes curling in the bedroom.
Try being unpredictable outside of the bedroom, too. A few years ago,
a male colleague took secret dancing lessons and surprised his wife at
their daughter’s wedding with some groovy dance moves. She was delighted
(because she was sure he was having an affair), and now they go dancing
together three or four times a week. He confided recently, that their
relationship is the best its ever been.
2. Be a Little Naughty – Whether it be in or out of
the bedroom, try and spice things up in your love life. If you are in
public, whisper in his ear the things you know will turn him. Do it with
a straight face. If you are in an elevator and no one is around, give
him an unexpected passionate kiss and let your hands do a little
talking, too. If he is watching TV one night, walk in nαked and stand in
front of him. That will be sure to get his attention.
Whatever is naughty for you, and a little bit out of character, go
for it. It is sure to put a bit of a spark back into the relationship.
3. Let Yourself Relax – You don’t have to make all
the decisions and do everything yourself all the time. Some women I’ve
talked to, feel that they have to be a super woman. They have to make
sure everyone is happy, fed, and the apartment clean. Ladies, no you
don’t.
Let your man be a man. Stop smothering him. You’re allowed to have
some time off. You can get your terrific man to give you a massage, cook
dinner for you, or make love to you slowly — catering to your every
whim. Just stop being the boss, and let your man be the man of the house
for once. Only you and he can know how he would like to do that, so go
ahead, ask him, listen to him and let him!
Ladies, these are only a few suggestions. If being unpredictable
means getting on the dance floor and dirty dancing with your man, then
do it. Whatever works for you to put the spark back in the relationship.
Every relationship is different and everyone’s imagination is
different. Let yours run wild!
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